What’s right for you?

You know what? Not everyone is the same. There is no one way of doing things because everyone is different. But finding out what works best for you is a game of trial and error until you realise what’s best for you.
For example, I tried desperately to workout after work so that my days off could be completely free. But no matter how hard I tried, it wasn’t working for me because I was far too tired after a full days work to go to the gym and it felt like it cut my evenings really short. So, I tried working out in the mornings of my days off. That was a bit hectic because lots of the machines weren’t free and there was a ton of people in there! So I changed it to lunch time – perfect! Not only do I get to have a bit of a lay in, but the gym is quieter and I still have the rest of the day to do stuff!
With food, I don’t like saying I’m not allowed certain foods because it makes me want them more! I want to be able to have chocolate and cakes, curries and fried food. But I feel so guilty when I do and it really does put on the pounds! So, how am I getting over this? Portion control was A LOT of work for me, but when I cut down my portions little by little, I was soon content with a small portion of my favourite food on my plate accompanied by more fresh vegetables and less sauces. Letting myself have a little instead of a lot of it helps me live without it a lot more, but because I’m still allowed it, I don’t feel like I’m on a horrible diet!
What really helps me a LOT, is not making food and exercise a big deal. I think of it as just changing how I eat and live in a positive manner. I’m not denying myself anything, I’m just improving my diet to something better. When I started out, I was constantly checking food labels and deciding what I could and couldn’t have and making going to the gym a big deal, that I HAD to go not matter what or I will be fat! Now, for some people that works, but not for me. It just makes me feel more depressed and it feels more like a chore or I just feel pressured. So now, I don’t make a big deal out of any of it. I know that on my days off, it’s gym day and I’ll go when I’m ready. I know what foods are best for me to cut back on and I have. Not because I’m forcing myself to, I’ve just realised that there’s healthier things I could have instead and that they are things that I like too!
Finding out how your brain ticks and how to cut back on things or how to do more exercise is a purely personal thing and no one can tell you what the best way is for your habits and your lifestyle. Best thing to do is document how and what you eat and your exercise regime and tweak it to being healthier and fitter. That’s when you can look up techniques and routines that might be good for you.
So try out what you think is for you, give it good time to see if it works for you, and go for it! If something doesn’t work, don’t get upset. We all know healthy eating and exercise will get you to where you want to be, but it’s up to you how you apply it.
| Proactol.com is the original source for the article above. |




